I've been in Virginia, just another quick trip to help my Father out a bit. He has new patio furniture - and so I decided, spur of the moment, to clean and seal his deck. That was a job (what was I thinking?).
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This is my second trip home since my Mother passed away. The house is changing: Friday evening, when I opened the refrigerator, there were no fresh lemons or lemon juice to be found. It's the little things that make you stop in your tracks, it's the little things that loudly shout in your ear YOUR MOTHER IS GONE. So, this trip, it was lemon juice that stopped me cold and caught me off-guard at the refrigerator door.
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The garden is okay (although suffering from benign neglect) - the burgundy bee balm is beautiful against the blue-flowering salvia, and the butterfly bushes and zinnias are blooming - the southern magnolias are blooming like crazy, their flowers nothing short of a festive insect jamboree. I tried to weed as much as I could, and got quite a bit done - but it is dry here, and Dad doesn't water the flower beds, it's as if he has blinders on when it comes to them. It is hard to see it neglected, after years of images of my Mother standing at each bed, hose in hand, watering faithfully. In the morning, before I leave with The Stan and The Dan - I'll probably dig up some of the daylilies on the edges of the garden, they've been shaded out for a few years now, and won't be missed. I can't bear to see them neglected.
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My Father's vegetable garden's are beatiful though - corn, beans, squash, tomatoes and peppers are indeed his thing. This is just one of three raised beds - the other is filled with roma tomatoes and bell peppers - tomatoes and peppers that will be preserved later in the summer. This garden has been wonderful therapy for my Father - at first he wasn't going to plant one this year, but he went ahead, and it has been a good thing - although I can only imagine how in the early morning, when he walks out there to check on it, how much he must miss his wife and partner.
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As for The Dan's first trip to Virginia, let's just say that the best way to describe her is as a seasoned marathon runner, addicted to Red Bull, and HIGH ON LIFE. Thank goodness she is very cute and sweet when she's exhausted. And yes, she has the pheasant pelt with her.
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