I'm out of town right now - had an interview on Thursday, spent Thursday evening with a college friend, and then on Friday morning I made my way from Northern Virginia to Charlottesville (actually, Earlysville). I've spent the weekend with my Father, and I haven't visited him since the Christmas holiday, which represents the longest period of time in about 4 years that I didn't visit. Since my Mother's cancer diagnosis (four years ago now) - I've become intimate with I-95 and listening to books on my iPod. April 15th will be the third anniversary of my Mother's passing. Time has a strange way of moving along, despite it all, don't you think?
My Father, as many of you know, has vascular dementia. I wish I could describe what it's like, but I can't - except that it's like having someone you know being taken over by an alien being. Remnants of my Dad are most definitely there: he knows who I am, remembers much in the past - but it's as if his entire world has change, his short-term memory is shot, and his comprehension of things is gone in many areas. He knows about certain things, but can't place them in context. Perhaps the most difficult part (for those around him) is that he is not aware of his own dementia - at least he doesn't share with anyone that he is - if anything, he feels that he is fine - and if you hadn't met him until just a few years ago, you might feel that he is fine too. Sadly, he is not the easiest patient - in contrast to the man he was all of my life.
Instead of rambling on about this alien world of dementia, I think instead that I'll just escape into my garden a bit, and share with you some things that I've neglected to mention. Gardens are nice that way.
~~~~~

I first mentioned my Cornus augustata 'Empress of China' about two and a half years ago, when it bloomed the first season after I planted it in my garden (it was the summer of 2008). It didn't bloom for the next two years - but it did grow a bit, so I tried to be patient. This morning I'm happy to report that it has one emerging flower - you can see the center of the flower here, and slowly, over the next few months, creamy white flower bracts (that are only visible as tiny things in this image if you click on it and view it larger) will elongate. I love how late this blooms in comparison to the other dogwoods - and that it's evergreen.
~~~~~
Of Note: I received a cutting of Odontonema strictum, or Firespike, early last summer from a friend's garden - and rooted it. I was brave and put it in the ground in the fall, and we ended up having an unusually cold winter. I was worried that I had lost it - but just a week ago, at the soil line, I saw a shoot appear. Yay! I really like this plant (or at least those I have admired in others gardens). I like these kind of garden surprises.
~~~~~
I am quite unhappy to report that I'm not in love with Camellia japonica 'Lemon Glow'.
I mean, a yellow camellia - no, a commercially available (down-the-street) yellow camellia!
I had high hopes. I like yellow in my garden. 'Mermaid' - delicious. The 1956 'Golden Showers' (which doesn't get the respect it deserves for a rose that demands so little). Yellow mexican sunflowers, sunflowers...daffodils. And I can't forget 'Elizabeth' - the lovely spring-flowering magnolia.
Yep, all wonderful, wonderful yellows.
But this - it's first year in bloom in my garden - it is blooming more of a dirty yellow, not a pale butter yellow.
But I'll forgive it this year (oh hell, I'll never remove it from my garden - lets face facts) - it was a rough first winter in the ground, so we'll see how the color holds in years to come.
~~~~~
Okay, horrible photograph (it's what I had on my card) - but nevertheless, this is the beginning of a lacecap flower of my Hydrangea macrophylla 'Kardinal'... something I find quite exciting (my plant was purchased from Wilkerson Mill Gardens in fall of 2007). It's another of the swiss Teller Series of hydrangeas (named after birds) - the other one I've had for years now and just loved, 'Blaumeise', is simply the most gorgeous shade of cobalt blue anywhere - it's as if several dozen bluebirds are sitting in it's branches when it's in bloom (and the flowers have a little age on them). 'Kardinal' is, as one might expect, red. But I've no idea what the color will be in my acidic garden - I'm hoping it stays on the red side, but I think I'll enjoy it whichever color shows up.
~~~~~
I have a decent spring vegetable garden going this year: two types of garlic, sweet onions, leeks, shallots, red and green cabbages, chinese cabbages, collards, brocolli, cauliflower, carrots, sugarsnap peas, two types of beets, radishes, romaine lettuce, leaf lettuce, red pontiac potatoes and...parsley. There's also a small patch of strawberries, and some asparagus too.
There's something about a vegetable garden - it's as if it has a direct link into my sanity. If my vegetable garden is bare, then that's an awfully bad sign. As long as something's growing there - even if it's just a few collards or a row or two of leaf lettuce, then the world seems a little more manageable. I think that this spring I've got my garden off to a good start - although I'm sure when I get back to Charleston on Tuesday that I'll find alot of weeds waiting for me. But that's okay - the vegetable gardens are full this spring, so I can handle anything.
~~~~~
I'm in Virginia until Tuesday morning - when I'll head to Richmond for a quick stop at the Virginia Museum of Fine Arts for the Picasso Exhibit and lunch (with my Mom's sister and her husband) - then back on I-95 and home to the Airstream and my garden, and on Wednesday morning I'll pick up the crazy (and much missed) dogs from the kennel.
Recent Comments